Keine lust ?!?!
Liebe Nessa
ich mochte auf English beantworten weil ich ein Amerikanerin bin.
I used to find that giving head was a little bit disgusting and that it was gross to put a penis in my mouth. But i tried it a few times anyway just to see and im glad i did becuase it really is not that bad. Anyway, i understand your problem. You dont want to give your husband a blow job, but you do want him to be happy and you dont want stress and arguments all the time i bet?!
Well my opinion on this is that if you really want your husband and you to be happy then you should just do it for him. Sometimes in a relationship you do have to do some things that you dont want to to make the other person happy. That is what a relationship is really all about, you have to work hard to keep your love strong. So maybe why dont you give him head now and then, maybe use it as a treat if he has been really nice to you, or has bought you something special. That way you are rewarding him for doing something good and makiung it more likely that he will be good again... plus he will be happy. Everyone is a winner then!!!
Or if you really cannot make yourself give him a blow job maybe you could speak to your Doctor as there may be a Psychological reason why you can't bring your self to do it.
Anyway, its just my opinion, hope it helps!!
Anna